Thursday, October 23, 2008

WHINE!

Ok so I don't want to whine.. but I can't help it. Where the heck are the referrals? I am getting so antsy. John reminds me when I tell him I can't take it anymore that we have waited over 2years for a baby. He keeps telling me that it is gonna happen soon. I am still in denial that this is actually going to occur....

I have started to think about the room but I can't get myself to actually committ to anything yet. I have a general idea of the color scheme, and furniture but that is about it. I will have to post the before mess that the room is in to show you the noncommittment I have going on.

Ok so tomorrow will be 9 months since on wait list and it was suppossed to be only a 4 to 6 month wait. CRAP!!!Where are the referrals?????????????????????

9 comments:

Lisa said...

Lisa,
It is going to happen, but your frustrations and anxieties are completely understandable too! Sometimes its hard to share with the fellas too...cuz, they seem to approach the adoption matter in a whole different way; or least mine does/did! :)
I want you to know that you are in my thoughts and I feel your time is near!! I wouldn't wish a 9 mos. wait on anyone, but it was a lucky # for us....that's how long we waited for our Lauren!!
Special hugs for you...
Lisa C.

Sarah k said...

You may whine all you need Lisa! Trust me.. I understand the wait game and I am right there beside you..lol. Ours is a different wait but none the less.. annoying as heck! Hang in there honey and it will come soon! We will all be here waiting to celebrate too! I tell ya.. it will come soon. It seems right when you can't take any more THAT is when it happens for you hon!

Sarah k
Taiwankiddo2.blogspot.com

Anonymous said...

Some things are just worth waiting for. I think this is one of them........ Hang in there!

Sarah and Dan Sullivan said...

Lisa, you whine as much and as loudly as you want to!!!! Life can just be so unfair huh? a nine month wait is just too long. I'm so sorry it's hard and I just know you will get a referral sooner rather than later. In the meantime, whine away! You are in my thoughts. Sarah

Melissa said...

It's coming, it's coming!! AAHHH, I feel the same way!!

Michelle said...

We're waiting right beside you -- imagine the party here when it finally comes -- we all won't be complete until Paige and Wen are home (and who know, maybe a sister for paige???) We love you!!!
Michelle

Heather - The Wanna-be Super Mom said...

I remember being there only two weeks ago dear!!! It will happen. It really will!

Pink Velvet Mommy said...

whine away, and I will bring the cheese:)

Dude this has to happen for us soon...right??

Please not another weekend!!!!!

Anonymous said...

Lisa,

I am so sorry that you are feeling so down. It will happen and it will be the best gift to get you through thte holidays and then you will bring that little bundle of joy home! Hang in there and I am thinking of you every day, knowing it will happen really really soon!

Have a Happy Halloween!
Melissa