Tuesday, April 21, 2009

HAPPY FIVE MONTH BIRTHDAY

Gawd this is taking foreva. Our little Paige is 5 months already. We should have had her home. We got stuck with a new judge in the system (so we are told). He took forever to schedule the Hearing. Now please Mr. Judge don't wait too long for the next steps. Eeeeeeeeeeeeeveryone say a giant prayer that we will get each of the next steps quickly and that we are traveling by June......

So hopefully no news is good news. That means if all went well at Paige's hearing we won't hear anything. I have posted before about the rest of the process, but now that it is here I will share it again. OK so next in this process is our FIRST RULING.
Part I of Final Decree(First Ruling). Once the hearing has been completed and the judge has had time to review all the information, he/she issues the first part of the Final Decree. This is a short statement signed by the judge that is forwarded to all parties involved (social services organization on behalf of the adoptive family and the birth family) notifying everyone of his/her decision to finalize the adoption. This first part of the Final Decree must go to each party and there is a waiting period of 10 days before any further court action can occur. The birth family has until the end of this 10 day period to change their mind regarding the adoption. Once the 10 day period is passed however, the judge can make the final decree.
Time line for 2nd Ruling - 2-6 weeks after the 1st ruling
3. Part II of Final Decree (Second Ruling). Once the 10 day waiting period is over (and the court staff finds time!), the second part of the Final Decree is forwarded to all parties. When the second part of the decree is received by your child's social service organization, the court process is DONE!



6 comments:

Laura G said...

We're almost there, I can feel it!
Sending my prayers your way-Laura

Lisa said...

Lisa, you know I'm praying big for a speedy completion to courts!! That beauty needs to come home!
~Hugs and thoughts...
Lisa

Joanne said...

HAPPY 5 MOS. B-DAY to a precious, sweet & very loved little girl! You know we are praying to have her home with her family PRONTO!!

Melissa said...

Happy 5 month Birthday beautiful little Paige!!!

Now HURRY UP Mr. Slow Judge!!!

Email Marketing Yenta said...

Speedy deliver...it is unreal how long this takes. It's so frustrating. I think you are right, the good news is that you haven't heard anything. I heard something right away after the first hearing...that they needed more information...the fact that you didn't hear is a great thing. The bottom line is just to not have any expectations. I think that is what has gotten me so depressed. I was told in March to expect to travel in early April. It's now the end of the month and no one knows. UGH!!! Anyway..expect I guess..the unexpected. All will be fine.

Anonymous said...

You are in my thoughts and prayers. June is right around the corner. HANG IN THERE!!!! I cannot wait to meet Paige. It's all good from here on...... I can feel it!!!!!!!!!
Sincerely,
Laura Walsh