The past week was another disapointing week. I had heard from our agency on Monday as a followup to my email from Friday. Nothing has changed. It has been confirmed by each of us checking in with each other, there is a total of 4 familie affected by this awful judge. One of the families has written a letter due to their child's developmental issues. I was told by my agency if that works for them then maybe we could try the same thing..... ARE YOU F**********G KIDDING ME????? That is all they have for a suggestion? Well, of course I am freaking out, and have sent another email this past Thursday requesting a judge change. No answer. One of the families have also contacted the State Dept. not sure they can be much help, but maybe we will get some answers. I am ready to do anything. I think if we ban together maybe we can see some action. This is hard, because on one hand you want to take action but on the other hand it is a foreign country, and I wouldn't want them to not rule for us because we are too pushy etc. I am really losing it though. Thank God I am busy with everything else.
14 more working days for me, and 15 more school days for Coleton. Wooohooo. Love summer break. We can't really plan a vacation because we just don't know when we will travel to get Paige. Coleton is finishing up LaCrosse, and is going into playoff for baseball. He is then playing travel baseball and we have him signed up for summer camps.
This week should be an update week so check back to see if I recieved new updates of our already 6 month old daughter.
8 comments:
Hi Lisa. Man, I can not believe this is all happening, it is a nightmare. You have every right to feel the way you do and to start being more pushy, but totally understand your position on doing it carefully. Why can't our stinkin' agency advocate...ugh I just don't understand.
I am thinking of you and the others.
Suzy
just sick I tell you that this is going on. I do think you all should request(insist, demand) a conference call, and at least bully up on the agency. I am sorry I don't believe (T) when she says there is nothing that can be done. I call Bu$$shi$ on that one. I do think you have to walk a fine line, but there is no way I could sit back and do nothing.
I of course feel very guilty that I am right inbetween you and another family that is stuck with this A-hole judge, and please know I think you each and every day and am really hoping that this can get resolved quickly, and get these girls home.....this was not suppose to happen this way!!! We were all suppose to go to Taiwan together and then meet up this summer....
Just know that my critique of the agency that has been sent to us is not very nice, and I hope they understand what I am saying when they read my two page letter(oh critique...sorry) that right now I think they are scum and not sure what they are being paid for.
I hate you re living this nightmare, and I do hope it comes to an end sooner rather than later.
hugs, hugs, and more hugs my friend
Lisa,
I am so sorry, there is nothing else I can think to say. I keep checking sure that this will be the day for the good news. Just know when it does come, I will be jumping up and down for you! Hang in there.
Melissa
Hi Lisa,
I'm praying for you & Paige!! Hang in there, it's coming!
Debbie :-)
Hey there. I've never commented before but I have been following your journey since you switched to Taiwan... I'm sorry your wait has been so long. I can imagine how hard it must be. Holding Miss Paige in your arms will be worth it. When she is finally home this will be but a distant memory and you'll only look towards the future you have together... God Bless you as you wait to bring her home.
Lisa,
This is so hard and I hate what you guys are going through....
Thinking of you tonight....
Lisa C.
Lisa-
This to totally the pits! I am so sorry that you are in this situation. I am thinking of you and wishing Miss Paige home to you ASAP.
hi lisa,
thanks for commenting on our blog today. we had a delay traveling to pick up neko for other reasons so i know it can be overwhelmingly frustrating.
we finally held her in our arms when she was 8 months - and i realized then that none of the stuff before that time mattered. i was so grateful to have her - every fear and frustration melted away. i feel that just as we were destined to be her parents, the timing was also destined.
you will be with paige very soon. take things a day at a time and look forward to that one and only perfect day when you finally get to kiss her.
keeping you in our thoughts,
farley
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