As I was sitting down for the first time this evening I realized that a very special date had just passed. One year ago yesterday (December 16, 2008), I saw our daughter's face for the very first time. It was one mixed with so many emotions. Last December we also lost the referral of a baby girl, so when we received Paige's referral we were a cautiously optimistic. I remember telling myself that I would not fall in love with this little girl until I knew for sure that her birth mother was certain that she could not care for her. However, one look at Min Shan and both John and I were hooked. We loved her instantly! They say you get the child that was destined for you. Well ya know what? We could not have a more perfect child for our family. Paige is sweet, happy, strong willed, active, full of life and very social. She has completed our family and made us all so very happy. It is amazing that biology has nothing to do with being a family or with love of a child. Adopting Paige was one of the best things we have ever done. We are the lucky ones!!!!! Last December was a much different one than this one. Life changes so very much in the blink of an eye. This time, for us the change was a joyous one. We love you Paige!!!!
4 comments:
it sure is a different December, and she is one that will melt your heart.
My heart just broke for you when you called me with the news of your lost referral. We never know why at the time things happen...but we sure know why that had to happen...because you were suppose to be Paige's mommy!! and oh the mommy you are to her and your boys:)
My dear friend I could not think of anyone I would rather go through this experience with, and I am blessed by your friendship. Now when you get too chilly you just book that flight non-stop to Dallas and we will be waiting for you with bells on our toes!!! Paige will be fine traveling, she is fine at everything else she does:)
I will call you tomorrow...just been hectic and no quiet time to talk. No napping today!!
hugs to you and your girl
Yes, it was such a special day when you received Paige's referral :) I am SO glad we all got to celebrate with you at the cookie exchange...remember that?! Paigey was meant to be your daughter - sometimes we don't understand why oh why things happen the way they do...but aren't we glad they did! :)
The journey with its twists and turns, some filled with anguish, others with joy, brought you to just the right time/place to find just the right baby for your family......your beloved baby girl.
Beautiful post Lisa. I'm still just so very happy for your family. In all the important ways, each of you is lucky to have found one another.
Many hugs & blessings!
I remember that time, and you are right, it all happens for a reason. Youa are all very blessed!
Melissa
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